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MOVIE REVIEW
Your Fat Friend
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Genre: Documentary, Biography
Year Released: 2023
Runtime: 1h 36m
Director(s): Jeanie Finlay
Where To Watch: opens theatrically in NYC on December 8, 2023 (Oscar-qualifying run) at DCTV's Firehouse Cinema (www.dctvny.org), nationwide theatrical rollout Winter '24

RAVING REVIEW: YOUR FAT FRIEND emerges as a strikingly insightful exploration of the complex world of fat activism and societal biases. Directed with compassion and purpose by Jeanie Finlay, the film captures the raw, emotional journey of blogger Aubrey Gordon, transitioning from an anonymous internet writer to a renowned figure in the fight against anti-fat bias. This narrative weaves personal stories and societal truths into a compelling tapestry of advocacy and resilience. I found it interesting that language guidance was offered for reviewers; this was a vital addition for me, even after watching the film and learning what I did: words matter!

YOUR FAT FRIEND begins with a captivating introduction to its central focus, Aubrey Gordon. The film traces her journey from the shadows of social media to the forefront of fat activism, a transition captured by Finlay with an engaging blend of sensitivity and boldness. The documentary doesn't shy away from presenting the daily challenges faced by fat individuals, transforming mundane activities into a lens through which we view societal judgment and discrimination.

Gordon's story is powerfully personal, yet it resonates universally. Her openness and vulnerability strike a chord, and the film enhances this by incorporating heartfelt interviews with her family. Rusty, her father, and Pat, her mother, add depth and relatability to her story, showcasing the far-reaching impact of her advocacy. Stories are at the heart of documentaries, and those connections will always stick with you.

Beyond its narrative, YOUR FAT FRIEND is a resounding call to action. Initially sparked by her own experiences and later encompassing broader human rights concerns, Gordon's activism stands as a beacon against societal stigmatization. The film spotlights her endeavors to challenge and change entrenched stereotypes, notably through her impactful podcast, "Maintenance Phase."

One of the documentary's most significant contributions is its spotlight on healthcare disparities. It unearths the troubling fact of Plan B's decreased efficacy for women above a certain weight, a stark example of the healthcare system's failure to cater to the needs of fat individuals. This revelation serves as a wake-up call, highlighting the biases ingrained in our healthcare system. Having trypanophobia (an intense fear of needles), I found it interesting that there are so many different aspects of needles, vaccinations, etc., that vary depending on weight as well.

Gordon's collection of vintage diet books adds a lighter yet equally thought-provoking element to the film. With their outlandish titles, these antiquated tomes provide humor and a poignant commentary on society's unrelenting obsession with thinness. Gordon's witty take on these books underscores the absurdity of diet fads and the need for a more enlightened approach to body image.

Finlay's directorial hand blends seamlessly with Gordon's authenticity, creating an engaging and enlightening documentary. YOUR FAT FRIEND transcends the typical documentary format, evolving into a powerful platform for societal introspection and much-needed reform.

YOUR FAT FRIEND is essential to the conversation surrounding fat acceptance and the push for societal change. Balancing heart, humor, and unflinching honesty, the film addresses critical issues like body image, healthcare disparities, and deep-seated cultural prejudices. Finlay's thoughtful direction, coupled with Gordon's dynamic presence, transforms YOUR FAT FRIEND into a film to be watched and experienced, serving as a potent catalyst for awareness and transformation.

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